“My favorite thing about Liku is that she always says the
truth and she is always clean.”- Laurencia
“What I like about Eliza is that she always advises the
other girls and loves church.” –Leticia
“What I like about Neema Mdogo is that she makes people laugh
and is a good leader of the younger girls.” –Leka
Our JBFC Girls Government meetings always follow a similar
format- we start with a group prayer, a Bible reading, and a discussion about
what we have just read and what it means to each of us, what it means for our
JBFC family, and how we can better implement those teachings in our own lives
(usually focused on love, forgiveness, understanding, and other important
values). We then take 15 minutes or so to play some sort of team building or
leadership game. After the game, which is always a favorite part of the
meeting, we tackle the day’s agenda and finish with a forum open to any ideas,
suggestions, or concerns.
The Girls Government at JBFC is nothing new- it has
technically been around for as long as I have been at JBFC and probably longer.
However, it has been relatively inactive recently. Meetings were rarely held.
New ideas never discussed or implemented. And, most importantly, the girls who
were elected by their peers in an early lesson of self-governance were never
really afforded the opportunity to be the leaders that they were born, and
chosen, to be.
There are essentially two branches of the JBFC Girls Government-
the executive branch and the representative branch- both of which were elected
democratically. The executive branch- Nyamalwa (President - pictured on left), Leka (Vice
President), Julie (Treasurer), and Leticia (Secretary), was elected by all of
the JBFC girls. The representative branch was created by each dorm selecting
one girl as their leader (Liku- Dorm A, Eliza- Dorm B, Lau- Dorm C, Teddy- Dorm
D, and Neema Mdogo- Dorm E). Our wonderful matrons, likewise, have a
representative leader in Mama Maggie who attends all of our meetings. At the
end of the year, when these girls’ terms are up, we will hold new elections to
form a new government (some incumbents may be re-elected!).
Since we started regular meetings three months ago, the
amount of time, effort, dedication, and resilience shown by the girls have
created some of my most inspiring and heart-warming memories to date (not just
at JBFC, but in my life).
Being a leader isn’t easy and it can often lead to
unforeseen backlash against those in leadership positions- something we discuss
as a group on a regular basis dating back to our first meeting. (Author’s note: Ashli Sims provided some
great advice to our young leaders about using teamwork as a method of
overcoming challenges during a meeting that she attended). Despite these
challenges, and there certainly have been many, the results of our girls’
leadership are both overwhelmingly positive and equally inspiring. To name a
few of the girls’ biggest accomplishments (in my eyes, at least):
-English. Creating, implementing, and following through with
a new system to reward girls for their effort in speaking English. According to
the girls, English usage has improved so much that not only is it the most
commonly used language at the girls’ home, but that the matrons have started
learning it and other students and employees are using it after school with
more frequency.
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-Reading. The girls have created a reading schedule that brings
them all together in the dining hall for half an hour four days per week,
during their current school break for a quiet reading time (since we don’t have
guests on campus for our famous “reading buddies” program). The Girls
Government oversaw the requirement that every JBFC girl check out a book from
our library and attend the reading sessions.
-Charity. The girls decided to have a special garden where
vegetables would be grown and provided to the local churches for various events
as a way of giving back to the Kitongo community.
As for the meeting-time favorite, we rotate through
activities that include each team member saying something positive about every
other team member in front of the whole group, to a game familiar to what
guests call “high/low” or “rose, bud, thorn,” or each member simply stating
something that they are thankful to JBFC for.
Maybe we will try the human knot
next week?
